Saturday, August 6, 2011

Rebecca Verna

Becca is my fall baby



Born October 3, 2001, 6 lbs 12 oz, 19 1/2 inches, my smallest peanut

By all accounts, we thought she was "Samuel", lower heartrate than the other girls, the morning sickness wasn't nearly as bad, everything seemed to be different with her pregnancy. Mum even wrote in my journal, "we can't wait to meet you Samuel". We were convinced Rebecca Verna was a bouncing baby boy.

To our surprise and delight, we welcomed our third daughter into our lives

She has been a joy and and source of love since that blessed day

Becca is named after Verna Owen, Jeff's grandmother, Becca's great-grandmother, Nana. Nana is 98 years old and one of the most amazing, inspirational, God-loving women I know. She will have you in stiches while singing her famous raps and in tears pouring out her heart in poems. She writes each of us a poem every single birthday, every single year. They just keep coming and we treasure each typed piece of paper with those special words she gives us. Nana is a priceless jewel and I am so blessed that Becca shares in her legacy wearing her name proudly. Proverbs 22:1 says "A GOOD name is rather to be chosen than great riches, and loving favour rather than silver and gold." How true is that!




Becca is my most reserved daughter. She has come out of her shell in the past few years but as a baby, she was so quiet, so good, never fussy, content always, my only baby that never used a pacifier. We'd have to keep checking on her in the bouncer because she literally would sit for hrs in that little chair and never make a peep. She spoiled me...or maybe she knew that she was the 3rd girl and that things were already pretty hectic in the household. Whatever the reason, I remember Becca being such a perfect little baby!

Becca loves soccer, basketball, drawing, writing and her favorite subjects in school are art and math. Just recently in 3rd grade, she mastered the math SOL scoring a perfect 600. She can't wait to be featured on the Wall of Fame at school signifying her accomplishment. Becca's writing also amazes me. When given writing assignments in school this past year in 3rd grade, the teacher usually expected a page or so to be turned in. Becca never stuck to that standard. Always, at least 3-4 pages, all stapled together, usually typed, would be hanging in the hallway. That's my Becca. I like to think she gets that from me, the writing. I adore writing. I hope Becca will decide to keep journals for her children some day as I have kept for all 4 of mine. It's such a memory to be able to go back and read about all the neat nuggets that without writing them down, you'd be sure to forget. Becca has a passion for writing, I hope she always does.








Becca is also my thinker. She never acts impulsively, but rather ponders and thinks out the situation and then makes a decision. I love that about her. She has a calm about her that is really neat to watch. She also isn't really influenced by friends too much. She is her own person, doesn't succumb to peer pressure and dances to the beat of her own drummer. Becca has a heart of gold and loves unconditionally. Yes, she and her sisters can fight like you've never seen before but the sincerity I see in each one of them afterwards makes me feel like maybe, just maybe I'm doing my job as a Mother and teaching them love. Love is the greatet thing there is afterall.






Becca is beautiful, Becca is unique, Becca is special and I love her dearly.



oh..did I mention she loves snakes???

Friday, August 5, 2011

New Chapter

It's official...

I have a job.

After treasuring my life as a stay-at-home Mom for the past 14 years, I am going back to work. I will be working the front desk at a Ballroom Dance Studio in Charlottesville. I'll be managing the billing, updating the web site, posting on Facebook, scheduling lessons, answering phones and interacting with the clientele.

In addition to all this, I'll be doing so much more...

I'll have a life outside my home.

I have very mixed feelings about this, mostly excitement but definitely some anxiety. I've never NOT been home for my girls when they got off the bus after the first day of school. I've never NOT been able to go to their orientation to meet their new teachers. Field trips? I've gone on just about every one of them. I've volunteered in classrooms, graded papers, ate cafeteria lunches, walked in straight lines through the hallways, and have loved every minute of those lovely days. My girls tell me, "Mom, we'll be fine," The fact is I know they will be, but will I? I think I am battling most with the realization that maybe, just maybe my girls won't need me as much as they always have. They'll be able to get off the bus, unlock the door and fix themselves a snack (yes, there will still be homemade cookies sitting on the counter waiting for them the first day of school). They'll be able to sit and do their homework without Mom's help. They'll be able to arrange a playdate without Mom calling their friends. They'll be able to (gasp) fix dinner AND do the dishes. This is what I've been training them all these years to do, right? Give them wings to fly. I just never expected that the little baby birds were going to have to help the Momma bird out of the nest.

Monday starts my new life...

Monday starts a new chapter in my girls life as well...

Better start baking those cookies! :)

Tuesday, August 2, 2011

McKeesport Memories

Wikipedia defines McKeesport as:

a city in Allegheny County, Pennsylvania, in the United States; it is located at the confluence of the Monongahela and Youghiogheny Rivers and is part of the Pittsburgh Metro Area. The population was 24,040 at the 2000 census. It is the second largest city (not including townships, boroughs, and Home Rule Municipalities) in the county after Pittsburgh.

Settled in 1795 and named in honor of John McKee, its founder, McKeesport remained a village until 1830 when coal mining began in the district. Large deposits of bituminous coal existed.

McKeesport was incorporated as a borough in 1842 and as a city in 1891. Its population grew steadily until the mid 20th century, when it peaked in the 1940s. The city's population in 1900 was 34,227; in 1910, 42,694; in 1914 (US estimate), 45,965; and in 1920, 45,975. 55,355 people lived in McKeesport in 1940. The decrease in the population since the 1940s is attributable to the general economic malaise that descended upon the region when the steelmaking industry moved elsewhere. The major employer was the National Tube Works, a manufacturer of iron pipes, which once employed 10,000 men. McKeesport was the site of the first G. C. Murphy 5 and 10 cents store.



My definition: The place I call Home!

We had the most unbelievable summer. We traveled so much, visited family and friends, put thousands of miles on our very worn Pontiac Montana, and enjoyed every minute of it. First trip was McKeesport, PA to visit our PA family. Going to Mum and Poppy's house is always a treat. We spent time on the river with Poppy and Aunt Donna and Uncle Bob. Abby and Elizabeth were able to water ski. They did really well. We swam at Aunt Donna's pool, had pizza parties, played cards at Memas, hung out at Mindy's, played pinball at Matt's and finished our vacation with a trip to Kennywood. Always a great time in McKeesport, PA.